Most of what is written about this stops at naming it. It tells you what was done to you and it tells you the word for the person who did it. That is useful exactly once, and then it leaves you holding a diagnosis of somebody else and no map of yourself.
This is the map of yourself. Six perceptions of love, in order, with the two mirrors, the diagrams, and the question the whole book is built on.
It is free. The book comes out in October and you will be told the day.